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Saturday, June 27, 2009

The 10 marriage commandments


Ten years down the line in a marriage, most couples find it hard to keep their relationships steady, but that's not the case with the soccer ace David Beckham and his wife Victoria.

The couple will celebrate 10 years of wedded bliss on July 4 and their love seems to be growing stronger every year.

Now, love psychologist Susan Quilliam has revealed the marriage commandments that keep them together, reports the News of the World.

1 Give each other space - Absence makes the heart grow fonder, especially when living on different continents. While David is playing football in Italy, Victoria keeps herself busy juggling family life and her fashion career in the States.

"Separate interests keep their love fresh and alive. They make the most of, and live for, the time they spend together," says Quilliam.

2 Forgive and forget - David's downfall came in 2004 in the form of Rebecca Loos, 32.

"The Beckhams were obviously able to talk through their problems, learnt to understand one another, and then put it behind them," says Quilliam.

3 Family comes first - The Beckhams have produced a hat-trick of gorgeous sons: Brooklyn, 10, Romeo, six, and break-dancing Cruz, four.

"When you're in a loving marriage and know you can weather any storm, having a child can bring you even closer, provide a focus for your love and give you a shared job to do," says Quilliam.

4 Be each other's cheerleader - The couple idolises each other.

"Victoria's made many sacrifices, but both have genuinely admired and supported the other. Be proud of what your partner does - and tell them so," says Quilliam.

5 Dress for marriage success - The Beckhams ensure their glamour dial is always cranked up to 11 on nights out.

"It's a sign of disrespect to your partner to let yourself go. By taking care of themselves, David and Victoria help keep the lust alive," says Quilliam.

6 When two become one - Their penchant for copycat behaviour is a sure-fire sign of a successful relationship.

"While individuality is important, their 'matching' styles, and the overlap between them, shows the world they have a rock-solid partnership - they think, feel and act the same," says Quilliam.

7 All you need is love - Victoria and David travel thousands of miles to spend one night together.

"They're constantly declaring their love. Just saying: 'I love you' every day goes a long way in keeping romance alive," says Quilliam.

8 The in-laws are not the enemy - The secret of a happy relationship is a happy family. With their hectic schedules, David and Victoria would be lost without Sandra and Jackie, their respective mothers-in-law, who regularly travel with the family, acting as babysitters and allowing the couple to spend precious time alone.

"The Beckhams know the importance of making their mums feel involved and valued. They give the family stability and are a vital source of support," says Quilliam.

9 Never air your dirty laundry in public - Behind the scenes, Posh and Becks have had their fair share of humdinger rows. But unlike other celebrity couples, they're careful never to argue or criticise each other in public.

"David and Victoria have such a public profile that even the slightest hint of tension would quickly come back to haunt them. They never criticise or bad-mouth each other, and if anything negative happens, they close ranks," says Quilliam.

10 Spice up (Sex) life - Posh is regularly seen scouring LA's sex shops and stocking up on red-hot goodies. And David often buys sexy underwear for his missus.

"Love thrives on physical passion. Shared pleasure and sex binds them together and helps them get through stressful times," says Quilliam

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Ultimate 'Arundhati'



Starring: Anushka, Deepak, Sonu Sood, Sayaji Shinde, Manorama, and Kaikala Satyanarayana...
tollywoodgalaxy: Rating : 8.5/10
Producer : M. Shyam Prasad Reddy
Director : Kodi Rama Krishna
Music Director : Koti
Dialogues : Chintapally Ramana
Story – screenplay : Mallemala unit
Cinematography : Senthil Kumar
Visual effects : Rahul Nambiar
Editing : Marthand K Venkatesh
Released on : 16 January 2009

Comment : Brilliant team work made Arudhathi a big hit. One can show this film to their non-telugu friends to project our film industry's talent. Special effects and the acting parts of Anushka and Sonu meet the Hollywood heights. A film must be seen by every Telugite only on silver screens. Don't watch film on internet sites and pirated DVD's. Story: This film's story outline is based on the Hindi movie '1920'. And don't expect anything from it and don't underestimate the storyline. Never ask the story before going to this movie. 3 hours Magic which keeps your eyes either half opened or fully opened. And don't reveal the story to filmgoers.

Star Performance: Anushka entered into the character and does great job. Sonu sood competed with Anushka in acting. Both of them are 'SUPERB'. One can't comment on their performance and can't stay without praising. And all the remaining cast did well.

Movie Highlights: Here we have to discuss every pin point in the movie. But we don't have that much space to discuss. I will use only one word to describe the highlights - ' Ultimate'.

Technical Analysis: First of all we have to pay Hats off to the dynamic Producer M. Shyam Prasad Reddy. After comes the director Kodi Ramakrishna. His direction is excellent. Koti's Music is brilliant. Chintalapally Ramana's dialogues are good. Mainly Sonu's dialogues are very catchy. Dubbing is rich. Story, screenplay by Mallemala unit is extravagant. Senthil Kumar's Camera Magic gave great strength to the cinema. Rahul Nambiar's special effects brought the movie to holly heights. Marthand's editing is cool. Importantly, the make-up and costumes are very nice. Moreover production values are very high.

Minus: Second half is good but not brighter that first one. The other negative thing is 'violence', which averts the female band. Delay in release did little damage to the expectations but after release it's Ok.

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